In my last post, I summarized a talk, Slowing Down, that I had facilitated recently at Agile Open Northwest. There was a fair amount of interest in the topic and some folks mentioned that I should do a follow on session focused on specific things we could do to start slowing down. It was a call to action. Once again, I walked into the session with very little idea of what would happen and how it would all work out.
The Session
The session got off to a bit of a funny start. I started by giving an introduction to the session, and creating some posters, and taping them up, and balancing my first cup of coffee for the morning – all at the same time. Yes, you got it – I was a multi-tasking madman! Of course I promptly tipped my precious coffee into the box of supplies, thereby destroying the supplies for the session and depriving myself of the coffee I so desperately needed. I couldn’t have put together a better demonstration of attempting too much if I had tried. After that little disaster, I slowed down a bit. We decided to put together two lists: Things to start, and things to stop. Here is what we came up with (in no particular order):
Things to Start
- Ignoring email
- Make a list and then throw it away
- Doodle
- Completing actions
- Schedule empty space
- Intentionally doing nothing
- Reducing my WIP
- Turn off email for 1-2 hours per day
- Using Pomodoro more regularly
- Get a dog
- Draw a picture
- Gratitude
- Listening to music each day
- Exercise – setup yoga with group or something else with coworkers
- Start reading more about Agile
- Observe my thoughts without judgement
- Start acting like a toddler
- Reading for fun
- Walking slow
- Notice my breath and how it feels
- Eating lunch NOT at your desk
- Watching grass grow
- Amble
- Phone stacking at lunches and dinners and meetings
- Being present
- Watch waves roll in
- Saying single sentences only
- Finishing things
- Reward slow actions
Things to stop
- Stop carrying laptop
- Stop reading more than 2 paragraphs
- Stop burying the lead in emails
- Multi-tasking
- Don’t go to Agile 2013
- Stop reading everything related to the next meeting’s topic. Be prepared to be unprepared.
- Stop working through the 12:00 hour and go for a walk
- Stop waiting for permission to initiate change
- TV
- Stop reading everything all the time
- Stop solving problems without asking 3 questions first
- Stop trying to fill the void of silence first
- Stop avoiding nagging release issues
- Stop checking email on my phone every time I have a spare moment
- Stop checking email before I go to sleep
- Remember there is always tomorrow…
- Stop checking IM’s the instant that they arrive
- When I’m at a conference, stop going to every session. Take time out each day to just go outside
- Stop having talks longer than 25 minutes
- Stop bringing anything on a trip that I didn’t use last time
- Ditch watch
- Drive less
- Turn off email
- Work less by taking a 3 week vacation
- Imitrex
Recommended books
- Personal Kanban
- The Tao of Pooh
- The Shibumi Strategy
- The Tao Te Ching
- Pomodoro Illustrated
Obviously we captured a lot of “stuff” here. Some of it I really like, and other things I will probably never try. I’m committed to trying many of them. I’m still absorbing, so for now I’ll take it one day at a time. Once again, I’m grateful to those who participated in the session. I hope some of these ideas serve as a starting point for others in the same fashion they have for me.
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